The Moment
Alex Rodriguez is finally talking about his love life on his own terms – which, of course, means saying a lot without actually saying anyone’s name.
In the latest episode of his HBO docuseries, Alex vs ARod, the 50-year-old former New York Yankees star looks back on the team’s 2009 World Series win. As he tells viewers he felt like the World Series “came and went” and that he was at the “pinnacle” of his career, the show quietly rolls a montage of throwback photos of him and Cameron Diaz.
He adds that “there was a lot going on at the time” – and that’s it. No name, no breakup story, just wistful voiceover while bikini shots and Super Bowl party pics with Diaz flash on screen.
For anyone who didn’t live through the 2010 tabloid era: Rodriguez and Diaz were first linked in spring 2010. Diaz confirmed the romance in a June 2011 interview with Elle UK, saying of their dynamic, “All I want for him is happiness. All he wants is my happiness. His isn’t reliant on me, and mine isn’t on him.”
The episode also continues the show’s other big theme: A-Rod trying to cleanly separate his baseball greatness from his very messy marriage and affair years. He and ex-wife Cynthia Scurtis again revisit the cheating that blew up their six-year marriage, including his long-rumored connection to Madonna, with Rodriguez admitting he “could have been more loyal” and “a better husband.”
The Take
I’ll say it: this is extremely on-brand for A-Rod. He wants to look honest without actually reopening the Cameron Diaz chapter in any real way.
Instead of, “Yes, I dated Cameron Diaz and here’s what that meant,” we get, “There was a lot going on,” over soft-focus photos of a woman who has long since moved on, married Benji Madden, and semi-retired to her wine and baby era. It’s like posting a #TBT of your ex and then turning off the comments.
To be fair, I don’t hate his approach. Diaz has stayed low-drama and consistently classy about him. He’s returning the favor by acknowledging the relationship existed, framing it as part of a whirlwind period, and then moving right along to his favorite topic: his own growth.
The more interesting part is the contrast. When it comes to Diaz, he’s nostalgic and vague. When it comes to his marriage to Scurtis and the Madonna rumors, he edges closer to accountability – not spilling every detail, but at least saying the words, “I could have been more loyal” and “a better husband.” For a man who used to treat baseball like an “escape” from his personal life, this is him finally admitting the escape came at a cost.
Is he fully baring his soul? No. This is a carefully curated rehab of the A-Rod brand. But compared to the tight-lipped, denial-heavy superstar he used to be, this feels like progress – polished, PR-approved progress, but progress.
Receipts
Alex Rodriguez makes rare comment on Cameron Diaz relationship in docuseries https://t.co/nEQGMhQGr9 pic.twitter.com/mjwByPqqcc
— Page Six (@PageSix) November 21, 2025
Confirmed:
- In a new episode of HBO’s Alex vs ARod, Rodriguez discusses the 2009 World Series and says there was “a lot going on at the time” while old photos of him and Cameron Diaz appear onscreen (episode released in November 2025).
- Rodriguez and Diaz dated roughly from 2010 to 2011. Diaz confirmed the romance and praised him in a June 2011 Elle UK interview, saying they wanted each other’s happiness and were not emotionally dependent.
- In the same docuseries, Rodriguez and ex-wife Cynthia Scurtis talk about affairs that led to their split. Rodriguez admits he “could have been more loyal” and “a better husband,” and describes baseball as an “escape” from his personal problems.
- Rodriguez and Scurtis finalized their divorce in 2008 after about six years of marriage and share two daughters, Natasha and Ella, according to Florida court records.
Unverified / Alleged:
- Rodriguez’s alleged affair with Madonna in 2008 has been widely reported for years and cited in divorce-related filings, but in the docuseries he still does not confirm or deny a romantic relationship. He only acknowledges that he was unfaithful in general during the marriage.
Backstory (For Casual Readers)
If you drifted away from baseball gossip after the 2000s, here’s the short version. Alex Rodriguez was one of MLB’s biggest stars, playing for the Yankees and helping them win the 2009 World Series. Off the field, his life was a soap opera: a high-profile divorce from Cynthia Scurtis in 2008 amid cheating allegations, a very public dating streak that included Diaz, and later a headline-heavy engagement to Jennifer Lopez.
Diaz, meanwhile, was one of the biggest movie stars of the late ’90s and 2000s, known for There’s Something About Mary, Charlie’s Angels, and The Holiday. She stepped back from acting, married Good Charlotte guitarist Benji Madden in 2015, and has focused on family and business ventures.
Alex vs ARod is his attempt to tell the story of his career and private life in his own voice – essentially, Alex the man versus “A-Rod” the brand. The Diaz years sit right in the middle of his on-field peak and off-field chaos.
What’s Next
The docuseries is still rolling out new episodes, and it’s clear the producers know exactly what they’re doing. Mention the World Series, flash Cameron; bring in Cynthia to talk about affairs; tease the Madonna rumors without fully unpacking them. It’s confession-adjacent storytelling designed to keep everyone watching.
The big question now is how far Rodriguez is willing to go. Will he ever speak plainly about the Diaz relationship beyond coded lines like “a lot going on”? Will he directly address the Madonna speculation, or keep it in the “I made mistakes” bucket forever? And will his later relationships – particularly the very public breakup with Jennifer Lopez – get the same semi-honest treatment?
For Diaz, there’s no real “next.” She’s married, seemingly happy, and has never publicly dragged him. If anything, the docuseries just reminds people that for a brief moment in time, the all-American slugger and the rom-com queen were the glossy tabloid couple.
For Rodriguez, though, this is about reputation repair in middle age. Owning that he “could have been more loyal” is a start. Actually sitting with what that cost the women in his life – that’s the part I’m still waiting to see.
Question for you: Do you think A-Rod’s selective honesty about Cameron Diaz and the Madonna rumors counts as real accountability, or does it feel more like image control dressed up as vulnerability?
Sources
HBO docuseries Alex vs ARod, episode released November 2025; Cameron Diaz interview in Elle UK, June 2011; 2008 Miami-Dade County divorce filings related to Alex Rodriguez and Cynthia Scurtis.
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